It’s not every day that we come across stories of incredible dedication and the deeply human connections formed through years of service. Today, we reflect on the heartfelt journey of Robina Navato, affectionately known as Bhing, who after 28 years of working as a domestic helper in Singapore, is returning to her home country. Bhing's story is a poignant reminder of the significant roles domestic helpers play in our lives, often becoming much more than employees—they become part of the family.
A Journey of Service and Connection
Bhing’s journey in Singapore began nearly three decades ago. Like many domestic helpers, she came to Singapore seeking better opportunities to support her family back home. Over the years, she worked tirelessly, becoming a trusted and beloved figure in the households she served. Her work allowed her to meet different families, learn about various cultures, and forge meaningful connections along the way.
Despite the challenges she faced, including being away from her family, Bhing found solace and expression through writing. She shared her experiences and those of her fellow domestic workers through essays and poems, contributing to several publications such as Our Homes Our Stories, Call And Response 2, Brown is Redacted, and Birthday Book: ReStart 2022. Her writings have touched many, offering insights into the lives and emotions of domestic workers in Singapore.
A Sudden Departure
Bhing's departure from Singapore is unexpected. Diagnosed with stage 2 cervical cancer, she has decided to return to her home country to undergo treatment, seeking the comfort and support of her family during this challenging time. In a heartfelt social media post, she expressed her mixed emotions about leaving Singapore, a place that had become a second home to her. She wrote about the privilege of serving different families and her volunteer work with HOME, an organisation supporting migrant workers. Despite the circumstances, Bhing remains hopeful and dreams of finishing her books and returning to Singapore someday.
A Tribute to Bhing and All Domestic Helpers
Bhing's story is a testament to the dedication and resilience of domestic helpers who leave their families and homes to provide essential services in foreign lands. They not only help keep our homes running smoothly but also often become confidants, caregivers, and friends. The bonds formed between helpers and employers are unique, marked by mutual respect and gratitude.
As Bhing prepares to leave Singapore, her story reminds us of the importance of treating all domestic helpers with respect and kindness. It’s a call to acknowledge their hard work, to understand their sacrifices, and to support them in times of need.
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For more on Bhing’s story, read the original article from The Independent Singapore.